Thank you for bringing your question to Just Answer!
In order to better assist you with your question, I will need a little more information.
- Was your wife recently diagnosed with diabetes?
- If she was, did your sex life and her ability to orgasm change at or about the time she was diagnosed?
- Has she recently begun taking any new or different medications, herbal supplements, homeopathic/natureopathic remedies, vitamins or minerals, or had her dosage of any medication or supplement raised or lowered?
- Has your wife experienced a significant weight gain or loss in the past six months to one year, or since the time of her diagnosis (whichever is more recent)?
- Have there been any major life events in the past six months to one year, such as moving, buying or selling a home or business, changing investment schemes, large investment gains or losses, new baby, pregnancy or miscarriage, death of a close friend or family member, loss of an important friendship, or career change?
- How long have the two of you been married?
- Can you provide me with your approximate ages (within the decade, does not need to be specific if you prefer)?
- How is the state of your relationship outside of the bedroom?
- Even though your wife is not climaxing when you make love, is she still enjoying actually making love? (Some women do not orgasm, yet do find the act of making love very pleasurable.)
- Are you yourself under any new or particular strain or stress?
- Other than diabetes, does your wife suffer from any other medical conditions or disabilities?
- How do you believe your wife's self-esteem is?
- Do you believe she loves or enjoys you less if she does not climax during love making?
- How openly are the two of you able to communicate?
Your wife's medical condition may or may not be directly related to her inability to reach orgasm. Once I have your responses, I will better be able to work out a solution for you. It is very touching and tender that you are concerned enough about your wife's pleasure to reach out for assistance. That says a lot about you, in my book.
I know that I have asked you for quite a bit of information, but I want to provide you with the very best and most complete assistance possible. There are many, many causes and reasons behind not reaching orgasm in females, and we have to look at the situation from as many angles as we can in order to discern the root cause.
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Hang in there!
Kindest Regards,
Melissa
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