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Can I get help with premature ejaculation
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I've been have this problem for a long time.I ejaculate amost right away atleast 98% of the the I tried diffrent things but nothing seems to work.

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July 22 8:00 AM (43 minutes and 44 seconds later)
         
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The practice most frequently suggested by sex therapists is called the stop-start method, says Mark Schoen, Ph.D., a sex educator and producer of the instructional video You Can Last Longer: Solutions for Ejaculatory Control (Sinclair Institute). You basically rock along until you feel an orgasm rushing on. At that point you freeze, either inside your lover or after you withdraw (she’ll probably feel less bereft if you stay inside). Gain control of your senses. Ask yourself what day it is. Give your penis a moment to cool. Start again. Repeat as needed. Nothing could be simpler.

An orgasm, you see, is one part lust, two parts friction. Stop the friction, and you stop the orgasm.

Stop Start Technique
To get the most out of the stop-start technique, you should endeavor to bring yourself closer to the detonation point each time you do the technique. That way, you’ll learn to read your body’s signals, to monitor your level of excitement, and to nail the exact millisecond you need to stop. Over time, experts say, you’ll be able to come so darn close to ejaculation without actually spilling any seed that you’ll almost think you have. Yet you’ll be able to stay erect and keep on going and going with only an occasional moment’s hesitation (perpetually blissful) like some kind of sexual legend.

Read about more to help you here:
http://www.4-men.org/prematureejaculationcorrection.html

Please let us know if that doesn't help.

Kerry

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July 22 11:08 AM (3 hours and 7 minutes and 42 seconds later)
         
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Premature ejaculation has many causes. Try the method shown by earlier answers.
How old are you. Many young men or teen agers have this problem, and it may not be a truly physical thing. If you are married: Try to time your intercourse to a time when you are more relaxed. Do not eat a heavy meal. Do not drink. And of course, quit smoking. That has a lot to do with the problem. You might even think about using a baby aspirin two or three times a week with breakfast.
If you are not married: Hold down the drinking, stop the hunt, try to find a comfortable steady partner, and again the same suggestions above.
Sometimes it is the simple things that help.
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July 23 12:36 AM (13 hours and 28 minutes and 11 seconds later)
         
Reply to Kerry's Post: I've tried those things and they don't work.The stop and start thing I've tried but how long should that method take.I'm 24yrs. old I've tried creams,pills,and other thing please give me any thing you my no.Or if you know a doctor in the Philadelphia area let me know .
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July 23 12:38 AM (1 minute and 28 seconds later)
         
Reply to Jack Schroder's Post: I've tried those things and they don't work.The stop and start thing I've tried but how long should that method take.I'm 24yrs. old I've tried creams,pills,and other thing please give me any thing you my no.Or if you know a doctor in the Philadelphia area let me know
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July 23 10:07 AM (9 hours and 29 minutes and 9 seconds later)
         
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Here are some names of places you can call in your area.

Hope it helps, and I wish you the best!

Kerry

Council For Relationships
4025 Chestnut Street · Philadelphia, PA 19104
(215) 382-6680
http://www.councilforrelationships.org/default.htm

http://www.councilforrelationships.org/Staff/Bio_Flemke_Kimberly.htm

http://www.md.huji.ac.il/publichealth/faculty/shtarkshall-cv.html

http://www.sextherapyinphiladelphia.com

Hope that helps!

Kerry

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July 24 2:26 PM (1 day and 4 hours later)
         
Mrs.Kerry are there any pills that I could try like zoloft or any other things.I looked at the sites you sent me and I even sent them my info. so they can get back to me for an appointment,but I'm not sure there way of fixing this will work because I don't have a study partner right know I'm just dating someone.
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