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How do I explain to others my depression?


Sent to Health Experts January 04, 2006 1:33 p.m.

I have been depressed it seems forever. At least since I was 13. I am 23 now. I have been on prozac, zoloft, celexa, effexor, risperdal (which was bad), and I'm sure i'm forgetting a few. I am curtianly takin' Lexapro and have been on it for about 3 months now. I have many reasons to be depressed. Like my childhood. But i'm over that. I'm grown and learnin' more and more about myself everyday. I'm sure it's with a lil help of medication. There are times when I get depressed, For no reason at all. Things can be going great....I just wake up depressed sometimes. I try to search for reasons why I could be depressed....and I can find many. But how do I know which is right? I just know I am depressed. I am snappin' out of it though. For this episode anyway. This episode has lasted almost a week. It is starting to interfere with my work and my relationship. My boss seems to think its other reasons why I have been depressed. How do I explain to my boss and my boyfriend that it just happens. I get sick...and i'll get over it soon. But with them trying to figure out whats wrong with me...and askin' over and over what is botherin' me. ....it knocks me down even further. I have come to accept that I have an illness and sometimes I get sick. I just don't know how to explain to others around me what it is and how it effects me. And if they would just back off....i'll be ok. So, my question is, how do I explain to others what depression is...what to do when I get depressed..and that I'll snap out of it shortly. Could be only and hour..a day...or maybe even month. : ( Thank you so much...and I'm sorry to bother you. I am just tired of going through this. It's the same routine..I go to the doctor..he gives me drugs...I get depressed oneday.tell him about...he ups my dosage....then it happens again..puts me on something different. I'M TIRED!! Please HELP!!
KATINA SULLIVAN
katinals@yahoo.com

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I have been to many doctors. Had many test ran. Been on many different medications. Same rountine since I was a teenager. I am curtianly on Lexapro and Klonopin. I am getting treatment from a psychologist. I have researched and researched for answers. All I can figure is I have a chemical imbalance. If I have a chemical imbalance, they prescribe me medication to level me out, but yet I still have episodes of deep dark depression. I have accepted it, I just don't want to bring others around me down with me. I want the people close to me to understand my sickness and that it just happens. People get depressed when their dog dies....I get depressed sometimes for no reason. It's a different kind of depression. A different dark black cloud that i'm sittin' in. I want no one to feel sorry for me...I just want people that I love dearly to have a lil bit more understanding and stop tryin' to figure out whats botherin' me. Cuz it's nothing...I am just depressed...I'll snap out of it soon.
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January 04, 2006 1:59 p.m. (26 minutes and 8 seconds later)

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Sent January 04, 2006 2:53 p.m. (53 minutes and 21 seconds later)

I guess I was askin' the the right question...Just to a wrong type of Doctor. I've heard that before. So I don't accept that answer...so hopefully I can reply to this and get more answers. My doctor has told me the exact same thing. But, people still don't understand cuz I don't have diabetes. I just don't know what to do anymore. Some days I'm ok...some days I can't function. If it keeps going the way it is, I will lose my job. And that comes with losin' everything else. So may I speak to your husband? Maybe he can help. Or maybe you can relate the question. I have no more resorts. I'm left with no more solutions. Like I said, I have accepted that I have a sicknes....I just don't know how to explain my sickness. The only medical stand point they have is that it's a "chemical imbalance." So they give me drugs to level me out...then why do I still get depressed? Why do I still get depressed on antidepressants? I can deal with the depression. I have learned how to deal and cope with it when it occcurs. I know there is no cure. I just can't let it ruin my life. And not bein' able to explain my sickness...nor understand it.....IS!!! Can he/you give me a medical explanation of depression and that it just happens?
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January 04, 2006 3:19 p.m. (26 minutes and 8 seconds later)

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January 04, 2006 3:56 p.m. (37 minutes and 26 seconds later)

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Sent January 04, 2006 8:49 p.m. (4 hours and 52 minutes later)

Ok so this brought me to tears. So you are sayin' its a chemical imbalance? So a chemical imbalance just happens? I understand a little about the seretonins and whatnot...how do you know thats what i'm lacking? Do I not get immuned to the medicine after a while? The antidepressants obviously do not work. I still get depressed. Maybe not as often...but I do just wake up sometimes feeling...it's hard to explain. I am in counseling right now. I can talk and talk for days. I finally thought I found the right doctor after so many of them. I know I found the right doctor. In the sense of talking to someone anyway. But again, I can talk and talk about all that has happened to me, all that bothers me, and it does nothing for me. Of course talking and getting things out helps, but I don't know how to explain.....but...no one understands. I guess there is no cure for depression. From a medical stand point(not that I have a degree or anything) I don't think any doctor knows what it is and what to do about it. So they assume it's a chemical imbalance. But they can't figure that out for sure...there are no test to measure...right? So they feed you drugs...sugar coat it for a while....it happens again...and again and again. Yes I may go a year without getting into a "deep" depression...but I do have my episodes and I'm just tired of it. They have cures for all this other...things. Why not this? They can't even figure it out. I have to explain to my boyfriend my feelings and emotions because they effect him as well. He doesn't understand...and I was just wanting help to help him to better understand. But all I can tell him is I have no idea....but i'll be ok. He sits and watches me cry my eyes out...over NOTHING! And it....nevermind.Thank you for the links and whatnot. I shall check them out! Maybe somebody has a solution other than takin' herbal crap that cost out the ying yang just like the drugs i'm takin'. RIDICULOUS!!
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January 04, 2006 10:13 p.m. (1 hour and 24 minutes later)

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Julie  -- mother/teacher -- 100% Positive Feedback on 139 Health Accepts
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January 05, 2006 12:36 p.m. (14 hours and 22 minutes later)

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Sent January 05, 2006 1:56 p.m. (1 hour and 20 minutes later)

Yeah it amazes me theres a cure for such a deadly disease like cancer...but not depression. I almost feel as if you don't believe me. Like I can control it...but I can't. But..you are not a phd..so..go figure. I thought I was askin' a physician my questions. Thats my fault. It DOES just happen. I wake up feeling that way. And my doctor has told me that. I just have to fight through and deal with it. I'm just tryin' to find other solutions...or help my boyfriend better understand my sickness before it ruins our relationship. He will eventually attend a session with me. But they are tryin' to get me "leveled" out right now. (again) So, we'll see. I guess I shall do some more research. They say it's cuz of the seretonins bouncin' around..not absorbin' a nerve cell...transmitters are bouncin' around...not transmittin' correctly. But, like I said, I shall do more research to better understand how the brain works and whatnot. I thank you for your time. Sorry if I came across negative or hurtful. Everything you told me, I've already heard. Like i said, I have been fightin' this for 10 years. Oh, and the links you sent me...I already had checked them out before emailin' you. Other than the acid thingy. Once again, thank you for your time. Sorry to bother you. I hope you have a good day and please keep me in your prayers. I noticed I was charged the $10...is that a one time fee?
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January 05, 2006 4:18 p.m. (2 hours and 21 minutes later)

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Sent January 05, 2006 4:49 p.m. (31 minutes and 48 seconds later)

Oh, I apologize. I thought you were a mother/teacher. Now I see obstician/Gynecologist. I have many question about that too...hah...that i'm just too embarrassed to ask my doctor. But I don't have the money to keep payin' for each reply. In the event that is how it works....each reply...each answer..I get charged $10. It's almost worth it. So...I'm just havin' a hard time thinkin' clearly right now. I knew you weren't able to treat my depression...I just need help explain' to others. And like you said, I shouldn't have to. To the b/f...yes...but I'm at a point if he can't have a lil condolence...just take it as it is...let me be..it's gonna end. And I hate that! Anyway, I should let you go. If you have time..and it won't cost me money..please reply to me one more time lettin' me know if each question/answer cost.
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January 05, 2006 9:32 p.m. (4 hours and 42 minutes later)

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