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for the past 2 or 3 months i've been really irritated, always aggravated at everyone around me including my husband and 2 boys, im always worrying about our financial situations constantly which gives me the headaches, i have back aches, leg cramps everynight when i lay down, trouble sleeping (at the most 6 hours), toss and turn at night, i bite my nails all the time while im worrying about my bills and financial situations, my husband says my attitude is affecting others around him and im too serious about every little thing, i never find anything funny i take everything too serious, im negative about everything, my husband is always at work, i lack energy, im tired all day everyday,im not interested in having sex at all(which bothers my husband), im crabby and grouchy,i blow up easily,i have no family or friends where i live not one, i act rude all the time which i don't know i am,i complain constantly,i don't know, why am i feeling this way? i used to never feel like this, i don't understand what's wrong with me!!! any anwers?? or is it just me? do i need to see my doctor? my husband thinks so!

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I think a counselor would be just the thing for you. My opinion is that you don't have any 'fun' time just for you! You worry about the bills, the kids, the house, the husband. When do you get time to just be? When was the last time you had some "me" time to do what you enjoy doing?

Please contact your doctor or your insurance for some names of mental health professionals near you who accept your insurance. I think this will get you on the right track in no time.

Kerry

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Reply to Kerry's Post: A MENTAL HEALTH PHYSICIAN?? IM NOT SURE DO I REALLY HAVE PROBLEMS?I DON'T HAVE INSURANCE FOR ONE SO THAT'S ANOTHER STRESS FOR ME OR MY FAMILY. IM CRYING ALL THE TIME I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO...SOMETIMES I THINK I JUST WANT TO RUN AWAY...CAN I SEE MY REGULAR DOCTOR? WHAT WILL THEY BE ABLE TO DO FOR ME?

Not necessarily a mental health doctor...but a counselor or psychologist. If you have medical insurance, you probably have some coverage for this.

Otherwise, you can talk to your regular doctor.

It sounds to me like you have a bit of depression, and talk therapy can be very helpful, as can antidepressants.

Kerry

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Reply to Kerry's Post: im sorry to keep bothering you but depression?? i don't understand? is it stress and depression for me? i don't know if i can handle that. is this normal for me to feel like this although i have never had these problems before? i've been through a lot the last couple years could that be the reason?

Hey, don't panic. This is fixable! Often your symptoms are depression. Start with your doctor who knows you best. Talk to someone you trust and feel comfortable with. Tell them what you told us. I may be wrong....but this is what I'm 'hearing'.

If you are active in your church, talk to the pastor. Just a suggestion.

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