I am so sorry for what you are going through. It sounds like you have done everything that you can to remove them from your toes. I suggest that you wait until your boyfriend comes home from work and then go to the hospital. Your boyfriend can leave you in the car and walk inside and request that someone come out with a wheelchair and get you. No one has to know why they are on your toes. You may have been just trying to see if they would fit and they got stuck. Most people have no idea what "toe cuffs" are.
Believe it or not, the ER department sees all sorts of sexual activity gone bad and they will not be surprised.
Let me know if you have more questions.
