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Sent to Health Experts July 07, 2006 11:38 a.m.

My husband is cheating. I found out by listening to messages left on his cell phone by the women that he is having sex with.

I told him that I felt that he was cheating...of course he got upset and told me that I was fausly accusing him. He told me that he would never cheat on me. I know different.

What should I do?

I am committed to my marriage. I don't want to let him know that I have is passcode for checking message.

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Female , Age: 54

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talking to him.

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July 07, 2006 11:47 a.m. (9 minutes and 14 seconds later)

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The best thing you could do is sit down with him and have a good heart to heart conversation with him. Normally when one is cheating on the other there is something that is missing in the marriage. If done right perhaps this conversation could bring this to the forefront and help both you and your husband. I would not suggest letting him know at this time about the pass code as this would just make him angry at you.

Professional therapy and marriage counseling is also an alternative idea. Just do your best to stay away from any confrontations that would worsen the situation.

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