How do I choose between two men? One I love , he has children (not necessarily a draw back for me, I love children...), but he won't go to church with me and all around isn't that type which is huge to me...but he is a fabulous guy who treats me better then any man has treated me.. the second man I've known slightly from college, apparently has had a crush on me for 8 years, we have way more in common...and we even go to the same church...just really started dating this other guy... my heart right now is saying the first...but my mind is saying that my heart could want the second one more as soon as I know him a little better. Who do I choose?
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Female, Age: 25, California
Already Tried:
talking it out with my sister...praying...and thinking alot.