Hi. I am a 22 year old gay man. So my question is in regards to that. I meet this guy (who is 25 years old) and he is H.I.V +. He told me this on the first date and NOTHING happened after the date. I am going to go back with him sometime soon. But how safe am I? If we use condoms what is the risk. Is it safe for me to give him oral sex? And him to me. I just want to know how safe is it to see this guy. Thank you,,