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Good evening, i got an unsafe sexual contact yesterday and i wanted to measure with you the level of seriousness before considering an HIV Post Exposure Prophylaxis. Will you help me?

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Yes, if you can post what occurred I can help determine if you were at risk. The more detail you can submit, the better understanding of the situation.

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It was after sports at the gym club. i met a guy at the sauna of the gym i already saw before, very cute, a young professional in the 20s-30s.
I was horny after working out and so was he. We started marsturbating each other. and then I closed my eyes as he stood up and positioning between my legs to masturbate me. I didn't realized immediately when he sat on me and making my penis penetrate him. Although it felt good, I almost immediately took off my penis out of his anus. I swiped myself with the towel and went right away to the shower to clean myself and my penis intensively. I realized after that that there was some taces of blood on the towel so i assumed he bled a little from his anus. I freaked out as i know how contagious blood can be.

When we left, outside the gym, I talked with him telling him that what we just did was not safe at all and that he bled a little bit. I was so nervous that i don't remember what he told me except he was fine etc...

To summarize:

- short insertive anal penetration
- some traces of blood on the towel when i swiped my penis
- showered for 10 minutes afterwards
- talking with the guy to determine his riskyness group. he's a very straight acting banker/bi-looking but the easiness with which he accepted receptive anal penetration freaks me out.

do you need some more details to help make a better evaluation of the situation?

i plan to look for him tomorrow a the gym and try to get more info about his serologic status.

Thanks,
vinnyc

Do you happen to know where the blood was located on you?

Do you have any open sores or cuts on your penis or in that area where the blood may have been?

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it was semi dark in the sauna and i did not notice the presence of blood until i came out of the shower and saw some traces of red substance i assumed it was blood. not it can be fecal fluids, i don't know but they were only traces (a small line).

The blood went on the towel when i swiped my penis with it so the blood was on my penis. I cannot say though wether it was on the glans or the shaft.

I don't have any irritation or sores or cuts on my penis, at least i can feel or see, my penis is normal.

Thanks,
vinnyc

As I'm sure you already know, whenever sex is performed (even a short time) there are always risks involved.

In order to get HIV via the blood you talk about, it would need to come in contact with your blood as well. HIV can be in semen etc. however, it's most common to transmit via blood, as it would take a lot more body fluid to transfer HIV. That is why things like sharing a cup or kissing is not anyway one can get HIV.

So from the information you have given, are you at risk? Perhaps a tiny chance, as the only way to say you are fine 100% is by nothing happening. Should you rush out and test, that is really a person choice. I personally would say chances are you're fine. But just keep aware as to what should and shouldn't happen in the future and do talk to him again, just to see what feeling you get. If nothing else, you can do the standard test in a few months just to confirm and for peace of mind. But I don't see you catching HIV with what occurred.

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