I have been dating my girlfriend for 9 months, both recent college grads and very happy together. She developed and was cured for chlymadia about 2 years ago in an previous relationship. In the past 6 months she has had 2 pap smears that have came back irregular and was informed she had hpv only days ago. My questions are? Was I the donor of the virus? If not what is my likely hood of catching the virus? How do you deal with the virus sexually? no sex? I mean its transmitted by any contact and is almost impossible to detect in males?