Hi Pam,
I am so sorry to hear that you are going through this. There is never a good answer for why certain people have certain problems, and sometimes the ones with the biggest hearts, seem to be the ones whose faith is tested the most.
With that being said I have a couple of questions,
Are you not able to apply for medical help through family services?
Have you spoken to the hospital about something they call "charity care"?
Do you think the lung problem is related to working with hair products?
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