Thanks for the addtional information.
As you have stated your Mother has a healthy appetite, the concept is to assure that she eats healthy. More is not necessarily a good idea if it is not protein of fiber rich. In her case it is obvious she is absorbing enough nutrients by virtue of her ability to gain weight.
It is not a good idea to over feed your Mother in view of the fact she has a healthy appetite and does gain weight. The dietician is incorrect in the case of your Mother, increasing her caloric intake would lead to further weight gain which would not be medically sound. This practice would be beneficial to those patients who were underweight or frail.
As you Mother is 4' 11" and 171 pounds, she does not need to gain any more weight.
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