I know you mentioned you do not think she is teething, but in fact she is at the very age that teething begins! It really sounds like that is what is going on. The first teeth to appear should be the bottom front 2 in the middle.
At the same time she is probably going through a growth spurt and really wants to eat more but every time she starts to nurse it hurts her gums where her teeth are trying to break through.
Two things you can do:
- Buy some of those plastic water filled teething rings and keep them in the refridgerator so that she will have something cold to bite on. Let her bite on them as much as she needs to.
- Use Orajel on her gums before she nurses. This may ease the pain and allow her to get through a feeding so she'll fill up. You can try Orajel at night also, just be sure and only use it as often as recommended on the tube.
I know this is a trying time. Is there someone else in the house that can get up at night with the baby once so you can get a little more sleep? Are you able to nap when your baby does? Or, after you nurse her, can you hand her off to someone else to watch and go take a nap?
If I can be of further help, please let me know and I will be glad to!
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