Hello again,

Do not be afraid to call your health professional any time you have concerns about your newborn's health or general care. It is normal and expected for parents of newborns to have questions and to make frequent visits and calls to their health professional.

The fact that Stephanie was in NICU and treated for pneumonia and 'probably' had some oxygen and went home slightly later, means that she was stimulated in a different way then her sister, Molly, during the first few days of life. Although, there are basic guidelines for a newborn's development, each one progresses at their own rate.

When she has her pediatrician visits, the doctor examines her sensory development to determine if it is appropriate to her age and it is usually plotted on a chart to see that she is growing and developing as others in her age range are.

Vision is developing quickly but is believed to be the weakest of the senses.

When she goes for her 4 month visit (as the doctor wants) he will assess her vision to see if she follows his finger or respods to a voice etc. Waiting till then will not hurt the baby, from the symptms that you describe. However I am a firm believer that you are entitled to ask the doctor your question and get an appropriate answer to alleviate the fears that you have. Put a call in to him/her and wait for a call back and express your concerns, and assure him that you look forward to learning more at the office visit as well.

The most important way to help your baby grow and develop is to communicate with her. Use a high-pitched voice, gentle touch, hugs, and kisses. An environment that is rich in stimulation, comfort, and loving attention enhances many areas of a baby's development, including brain growth and intelligence. Research shows that babies who are talked to throughout their first few years usually learn language skills more easily than those who are not.

If you have more concerns, I am here.

Terry