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My period usually comes on at the end of the month. The first day of my last menstural cycle was May 31 and it lasted until June 5. I had unprotected sex with Person A on June 7, we used the withdrawal method, and he said he's postive nothing leaked. I had sex with my boyfriend, Person B on June 8, and he ejaculated in me. I took a pregnancy test on July 3, 4 days after my period was suppose to come on, and it came back positve. Who's the father? P.S My boyfriend, Person B and I have had continuos unprotected sex before and after the date stated. Please Help!

 

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July 14 2006 at 6:21 AM (4 minutes and 6 seconds later)
         
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Hi,

Though the best odds lean toward your boyfriend because of the continuous unprotected sexual activity. With the dates of person A & B being so close there is no way anyone could determine who the father is without a Paternity test.

Unfortunately you are talking about 2 possibility's within a 24 hour time frame, there is no way to even make a educated guess on this one.

I wish you the best.

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July 14 2006 at 6:28 AM (6 minutes and 36 seconds later)
         
Reply to Walter 's Post: Okay, I definetly can not get a paternity test, my boyfriend is so excited, he'll kill me! I need more. Well they say when a girl ovuates she can become pregnant. Is it possible for my boyfriend? Oh yea, how certain or you that pre-cum can get you pregnant, becuase I know that Person A DID NOT ejaculate in me.
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July 14 2006 at 6:35 AM (7 minutes and 16 seconds later)
         
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Hi,

Chances are lowered significantly when the pull out method is used, and if you know for a fact he pulled out in enough time the chance is slim. But you can become pregnant though pre ejaculation it is just slimmer.

I think the possibility is higher that the father is your boyfriend. Though you will have to accept the fact that there is a slight chance. I can understand your reluctance to tell your boyfriend as it may very well crush him. And it is your personal choice that you need to do some serious thinking about.

In the end he has a right to know if he may not be the father, as well as your unborn child's right to know for a fact who his or her father is.

I wish you the best in what ever you decide, try not to get your self to stressed about this. You and your babys welfare needs to come first.

Walter



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July 14 2006 at 6:50 AM (14 minutes and 19 seconds later)
         
Reply to Walter 's Post: One more question, does it matter whose sperm gets tomy egg first, I mean lets just say Person A did pre- cum, how much sperm is needed? And being that my boyfriend person B ejaculated, wouldn't his chaces be entirely greater?
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