I think your boyfriend needs to tell you what HE considers a turn on or turn off. How could anyone else know? The 'to wear or not to wear'thong answer needs to be based on the opinion of the one you are trying to turn on since it is possible that everyone will have differing opinions. For me, it is neither.
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BarbaraTaylor, ARNP, CAP
My suggestions are not intended to replace consultation with your physician.
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