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I am 56 years old and enjoy sex but on a recent trip ...

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I am 56 years old and enjoy sex but on a recent trip my wife and we had 2 good sessions of sex then tried a different position and it failed. Since then I can wake up with a hard erection but when I turn to her it slowly goes down. I know its in my mind of failure on the other attempt but how do you get it out of your mind and pick up with our sex life? I can think about sex and get an erection then it goes down when I turn to my wife. We have been married 30 years and with the exception of a few times we have always had good sex maybe not as often as our younger years. I need an experts suggestion. Thanks

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November 4 2005 at 3:00 PM (19 hours and 51 minutes and 9 seconds later)
         
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Have you tried for HER to make you aroused? If not try it. Maybe your mind is looking for her to show you physically that all is not lost and in vain in your bedroom. Also it may help to try new and kinky ways of having sex since then your mind won't know what's ahead and you may be able to sustain an erection longer because of the apprehension....
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November 6 2005 at 6:08 PM (2 days and 3 hours later)
         
Reply to James Grant's Post: She has been great in helping me to get re-aroused when this happens. what are you thinking about in saying new and kinky ways of having sex?
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November 7 2005 at 12:45 PM (18 hours and 37 minutes and 8 seconds later)
         
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I'm not saying to go off on the deep end here. I mean find new things about sex that you haven't tried before such as Karma Sutra, sex videos, ect. Something new to where you don't know what's going to happen next, only she does.....
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