A healthy person can go for sixty days without food, but a sick person, maybe a few days.
An ill person will probably need some sort of hydration within 72 hours or less. It's possible you may try small ice chips? Once the body starts shutting down, dehydration is no longer uncomfortable for the person. You can use glyceryn on the lips to keep them hydrated.
Keep in mind that hearing is the last sense to go, so even if it may not seem like it they can most likely hear you. Speak normally, even if they don't respond.
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