i have a female friend who is in a abusive relationship not involving violence. Her husband drinks heavily and she is a full time carer to a disabled teenager.Which he has no part of caring for,however they have split up but he refuses to leave he takes money out of the bank leaving her short of money for food and bills and constantly puts her is sarcastic and makes it impossible for her to have a relationship with her children who have left home.she has asked him to leave but he says she should taking her disabled son with this is impossible for the house that she lives in is all adapted for her son.she has been to victim support and they told her to keep a diary of all events but apart from they said there is nothing else they can do unless he hits her.Is there anything else i can do or any other way she could turn because this is destroying her.

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Age: 25

Already Tried:
victim support ,social services,health visitor