Hi saus,
I have counseled many Individuals & Couples re: sexual dysfunction past 14 years. My advice is this: if you want to have gratifying sex (including orgasms) with another person, you need to stop masturbating so often (limit to 1 or 2 times/week, for example). This is NOT an ethical statement; just a factual ADVICE statement.
I've observed SO many instances (esp. men) where frequent, daily masturbation, made it extremely diificult for the patient to experience climax through other means (eg. vaginal penetration; oral sex, etc); this appears to be a combination of PHYSICAL + PSYCHOLOGICAL adaptation to masturbation (the type and texture of physical stimulation is different), whereby the penis becomes "trained" to orgasm only with the masturbatory method. Thus, my advice is to try to eliminate (or signif. decrease) the masturbation for awhile; then, try to re-adapt yourself in a sexual relat. with another person. It won't be easy at first, but with perseverence and determination you should be able to achieve desired goal.
Best, -Dr. Steve
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