i have extreemly servere headachs 2-3 times a week. They make my head feel like its going to burst and I can feel fuild inside my ears. They are so bad they can only go away if i sleep them off and even then sometimes they don't go away. What's wrong with me?

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Female , Age: 20

Already Tried:
any kind of ibprophin, cold press, sleeping, stop taking the birth control pills (still happend) watch what i ate, tried avioding stressful situations