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Sent to Health Experts June 20, 2006 11:10 a.m.

I MY GIRLFRIEND WHO I AM ABOUT TO MARRIE IS HAVEING MY BABY AND KNOW SHE IS ACTING ALL WREID SHE SAYS THAT SHE LOVES ME BUT CANT SAY AND SHE WANTS ME TO BE A PART OF HER LIFE BUT SHE DOSENT THINK WE SHOULD BE TOGETHER NO MORE AND NOW I LOST BECUSE I DONT KNOW WHAT I SHOULD DO ,,,BECUSE I DONT KNOW IF SHE IS GOIN THOUGH ALOT RIGHT NOW BECUSE WE ARE BOTH ONLY 21 BUT IT IS KILLING ME INSIDE BCUSE I DONT WANT TO LOSE HER ......I GUESS NEED HELP TO FIND OUT WHAT TO DO ...... I NEVER THOUGHT THAT THIS WOULD HAPPEN AND SHE IS ON HER SECOND TRYMISTER IF YOU COULD TELL ME IF THIS IS COMMON IN A WOMEN WHEN THERE HAVE A BABY OR TELL ME WHAT I NEED TO DO IT WOULD MAKE ME FEEL BETTER THANK YOU ,.,.,,,,BRANDON ENGELS

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Male , Age: 21

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EVERYTHING IN MY POWER

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June 20, 2006 11:18 a.m. (8 minutes and 47 seconds later)

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It is very common for a woman to have mood swings and emotional shifts during and just after pregnancy. Give her some space and time. Be there for her and supportive of her feelings but don't be aggressive to pursue the relationship. She is preparing to be a mother right now, she doesn't need the stress of trying to be a mate. Continue your attachment as father for the child and she may sort through her feelings. She may be feeling overwhelmed and potentially trapped into a 'forever' that she isn't sure about. The only 'forever' she needs to commit to is the parenting one. The relationship will settle out once she is adjusted to her role as mommy

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Sent June 20, 2006 11:34 a.m. (15 minutes and 46 seconds later)

SO GIVE HER SOME SPACE AND LET HER FIND OUT WHAT SHE WANTS BECUSE I BEEN HAVE NOT BEEN ABLE TO SLEEP BECUSE IM SCARED OF LOSSING HER

AND WE ARE STILL BOTH YOUNG AND WE HAVE ARE WHOLE LIFES TO LIVE .

BUT WHAT STARTED ALL THIS IS THAT SHE WENT OUT WITH HER FIND TO A PARTY TO SEE ALL OF HER FRINEDS AND IT WAS AT HER EXS HOUSE BUT SHE DIDNT COME HOME TILL 5 30 IN THE MORRIN AND I KNOW THAT SHE DIDNT DO ANYTHING BUT I SCARD THAT IM GOIN TO LOSE HER OVER SOMETHING DUMB SO I AM GOIN TO TAKE WHAT YOUR SAYING AND DO IT IM GOIN TO GIVE HER SOME SPACE BUT I DONT KNOW HOW MUCH CUSE IF I GIVE HER TOO MUCH SPACE WOULD I LOSE HER 4 EVER

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June 20, 2006 11:42 a.m. (7 minutes and 21 seconds later)

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You have a connection to her forever through your soon to be born child. As she realizes the wonderful father you are going to be, she may realize the wonderful mate you would make for her.
Good luck with everything

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DrStephanie

S. Sarisky DO. -- Doctor -- 98% Positive Feedback on 505 Health Accepts
board certified family physician 12 yrs

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