Drugs and other methods are designed to help you with erectile dysfunction, that is, when you get horny but do not have erection.
If you do not get horny, then the problem is elsewhere. It is a psychological problem. The commonest causes of loss of libido or decreased libido is depression or anxiety. Although you may not yourself realise that you have any feelings of depression or of anxiety, this can be the first symptom and manifestation of stress. Office work or domestic tensions can lead to a build up of stress which may manifest as loss of libido.
You should consider now the option of a psychiatrist consultation. Psychological diseases are as much diseases as physical diseases. A psychiatrist will be able to evaluate your status and decide if you have any stress. We need to get them treated as matter of factly as we treat a physical disease. The proper specialist for treating a psychological condition is a psychiatrist. You must approach a psychiatrist and discuss your symptoms with him. There are a wide range of drugs like antidepressants and anti anxiety drugs which will no doubt help you to regain control of your life.
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