my 11 month old has a nice sized soft spot above her left ear. It is kind of puffy and soft in that area, she fell off the bed last night, so i think it might be from that, however i didn't notice it until i was rubbing her head tonight to put her to sleep, i have other children and i remember my doctor telling me that it's only necessary to take the child to the hospital if the area is pushed in, instead of out. Should i take her to the emergency room??