Hello Ma'am,sorry for not having replied earlier.
The symptoms that you mention
-bloody diarrhea
-pain in right lower quadrant
-high white cell count
-abdominal pain on eating which has been described as "food fear"
-sores in the mouth
these are found in Crohn's disease.
Crohn's disease sometimes has inflammation all over the GI tract as you mentioned.
You can refer to these sites for more information on Crohn's
http://www.umm.edu/digest/ibdcro1.htm
http://www.merck.com/mmhe/sec09/ch126/ch126b.html#sec09-ch126-ch126b-532
http://www.badgut.com/index.php?contentFile=ibd_index&title=Inflammatory%20Bowel%20Disease
However, other conditions which could lead to such
presentation are :
-appendicitis
because of diarrhoea, vomiting,high white cell count,lump in right lower quadrant.
-Tuberculosis of the intestine/hyperplastic tuberculosis
lump, diarrhoea
-Typhoid Fever
because of diarrhoea,fever and abdominal cramps
-polyps
bloody diarrhoea, abdominal pain
but they would be detected in endoscopy and more associated with large intestine.
Primarily though I suspect crohn's the most.
It runs in the families so if anyone in your family suffered from the disease,the diagnosis would point more towards it.
Some more facts about Crohn's
*It is most commonly found in North America and Northern Europe
*More common in females
*Most commonly diagnosed in young patients between 25-40 years though lately it is being seen with increasing incidence around the age of 17.
*Ileum is the most common site for crohn's to occur accounting for about 60% of all cases.
*Crohn's also shows low red cell count or anemia.
Though there is abdominal pain and diarrhoea associated with IBS,but bloody diarrhoea is usually not seen in IBS
You can also refer to this page to know the factors which worsen IBS
http://digestive.niddk.nih.gov/ddiseases/pubs/ibs/
I hope you find this information beneficial
In alternative healing methods you could also try reiki.I have seen many people benefitting from Reiki.It can be continued along with the conventional treatment.Though I would not advise to depend totally on it.