i am between 8-12 days late. i have been on birth control for years but stopped taking it three months ago and since then up to this point had a period on time or within a day or two of when i did on the pill. i took a test and it said negaitive but i have been more tired then usual and have been extreemly bloated and have had cramps in my lower abs and back and i never had cramps before my period. i am trying to get pregant so i dont want it to just be wishful thinking of being pregnant when i am having the sympotms prior to a period. any help on this would be great. thank you fo ryou time