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My mother is having thoughts that if we visit her and stay in her house that we may not be safe. This behavior has been going on for some time and I am not sure what is happening. My husband says she is possibly showing the beginnings of schizophrenia. I haven't heard that this disorder runs in my family and know of no other family members with it. She gets angry with me when I say that she might need to see a doctor. Is there a way to make her go? She is unable to hold a job, she believes that her phone is tapped, and that she is being watched. I live 500 miles away from her and cant monitor her all of the time. We are going home in two weeks and I wil have the opportunity to address this in person. I don't want to waste prescious time so what can you reccomend that I do to get her the most help?

 

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August 20 10:44 PM (1 hour and 17 minutes and 27 seconds later)
         
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Hi-

I'm sorry you're having such a stressful experience. I can relate on a very real and personal level.

The good news is that your mother's symptoms are likely treatable - the bad news is that she definitely needs to be evaluated by a doctor.

While it does sound like she may be developing symptoms of paranoid schizophrenia, this may not actually be the case. Although it's not really relevant that schizophrenia doesn't appear to run in your family, it is relevant that you're mother is somewhat older. It's quite unusual for people to develop schizophrenia after their thirties (although it is not unheard of). Instead, your mother may be experiencing early signs of dementia, or another psychiatric disorder (some people with severe depression and/or anxiety display paranoid symptoms).

You really need to convince her to go to the doctor. The only other real alternative is to take her against her will - this is a real possibility if she refuses to be seen and if you feel she poses any sort of threat to herself. The first thing you should do is call her regular doctor and explain her symptoms to him/her. The doctor should be able to give practical advice as to whether she needs to be seen against her will.

I realize this is a very hard situation, for both you and your mother. However, rest assured that the sooner your mother receives help, the sooner she will be able to receive any necessary treatment as well.

Sincerely,
Emily




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