Hello,
The swelling behind the ear appears to be an enlarged gland.Difficulty in breathing for about 6 weeks suggest chronic respiratory infection.
I personally recommand that you should visit a Doctor & get following investigations done
X-ray chest
Blood examination
& if possible an ultra sound scan of abdomen.
If you delay at this stage symptoms might aggrawate. So don't ignore the situation.
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